To assign a reference in a constructor you need to have a reference member
class A{
std::string& str;
public:
A(std::string& str_)
: str(str_) {}
};
str is now a reference to the value you passed in. Same applies for const refs
class A{
const std::string& str;
public:
A(const std::string& str_)
: str(str_) {}
};
However don’t forget that once a reference has been assigned it can not be changed so if assignment requires a change to str then it will have to be a pointer instead.