How to get a pointer from a reference?

Yes, applying the address-of operator to the reference is the same as taking the address of the original object.

#include <iostream>

struct foo {};

void bar( const foo& obj )
{
  std::cout << &obj << std::endl;
}

int main()
{
  foo obj;
  std::cout << &obj << std::endl;
  bar( obj );

  return 0;
}

Result:

0x22ff1f
0x22ff1f