How to create a variable that can be set only once but isn’t final in Java

Let me suggest you a little bit more elegant decision.
First variant (without throwing an exception):

public class Example {

    private Long id;

    // Constructors and other variables and methods deleted for clarity

    public long getId() {
        return id;
    }

    public void setId(long id) {
        this.id = this.id == null ? id : this.id;
    }

}

Second variant (with throwing an exception):

     public void setId(long id)  {
         this.id = this.id == null ? id : throw_();
     }

     public int throw_() {
         throw new RuntimeException("id is already set");
     }