Comparing Apple’s documentation for the various paths to the XDG Base Directory specifications approximates to the following locations:
XDG_CONFIG_HOME▶︎~/Library/Preferences/XDG_DATA_HOME▶︎~/Library/XDG_CACHE_HOME▶︎~/Library/Caches/
Mapping XDG Base Directory Specification locations for “My App” on Mac OS X could look like this:
XDG_CONFIG_HOME▶︎~/Library/Preferences/name.often.with.domain.myapp.plistXDG_DATA_HOME▶︎~/Library/My App/XDG_CACHE_HOME▶︎~/Library/Caches/My App/
These mappings seem pretty reasonable but they aren’t exact. Some kinds of cache or data may be appropriate for ~/Library/Application Support/My App, and other may be best in the temp locations or the App bundle. All of it is by convention and the same reasons for using the best XDG_ locations apply to using the best locations on the Mac OS X system.
Your annoyance at ~/.myscript is in line with Apple’s guidelines: “Don’t pollute user space”.
References:
- Mac OS X Reference Library: Where to Put Application Files
- Mac OS X Reference Library: Important Java Directories on Mac OS X