<ColumnDefinition>
<ColumnDefinition.Style>
<Style TargetType="ColumnDefinition">
<Setter Property="Width" Value="*" />
<Style.Triggers>
<DataTrigger Binding="{Binding IsColumnVisible}" Value="False">
<Setter Property="Width" Value="0" />
</DataTrigger>
</Style.Triggers>
</Style>
</ColumnDefinition.Style>
</ColumnDefinition>
Please do implement INotifyPropertyChanged in your ViewModel