Try this:
;WITH items AS (
SELECT EstimateItemID, ItemType
, 0 AS Level
, CAST(EstimateItemID AS VARCHAR(255)) AS Path
FROM EstimateItem
WHERE ParentEstimateItemID IS NULL AND EstimateID = @EstimateID
UNION ALL
SELECT i.EstimateItemID, i.ItemType
, Level + 1
, CAST(Path + '.' + CAST(i.EstimateItemID AS VARCHAR(255)) AS VARCHAR(255))
FROM EstimateItem i
INNER JOIN items itms ON itms.EstimateItemID = i.ParentEstimateItemID
)
SELECT * FROM items ORDER BY Path
With Path – rows a sorted by parents nodes
If you want sort childnodes by ItemType for each level, than you can play with Level and SUBSTRING of Pathcolumn….
Here SQLFiddle with sample of data