In your didSelectRowAtIndexPath you need to call deselectRowAtIndexPath to deselect the cell.
So whatever else you are doing in didSelectRowAtIndexPath you just have it call deselectRowAtIndexPath as well.
- (void)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView didSelectRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath {
// Do some stuff when the row is selected
[tableView deselectRowAtIndexPath:indexPath animated:YES];
}