Either OCaml or Haskell would be a good choice. Why not check out the LLVM tutorials for each language? The LLVM tutorial for OCaml is here: http://llvm.org/docs/tutorial/OCamlLangImpl1.html
Haskell has more momentum these days, but there are plenty of good parsing libraries for OCaml as well including the PEG parser generator Aurochs, Menhir, and the GLR parser generator Dypgen. Also check out this presentation on pcl a monadic parser combinator library for OCaml (like Parsec for Haskell) there’s some good info in there comparing Haskell’s and OCaml’s approach: http://osp.janestreet.com/files/pcl.pdf
Some will say that laziness gives Haskell the edge in parsing, but you can get laziness in OCaml as well.