$.ajax is not expecting a DOMElement of type HTMLInputElement in the object you are passing to data. Try just giving it the value of the field instead:
var wordid = $('.wordId').val();
$.ajax({
url: "assigner.php",
type: "POST",
data: { wordid: wordid, assign: assign}
}).done(function( e ) {
/*alert( "word was saved" + e );*/
});