You don’t need to link to a different library, you need to use an older version of the compiler.
Have a look at the GNU ABI policy. The libstdc++ shared library is designed to be forward compatible. I.e. version 6.0.10 can be used if you need 6.0.8. In the policy you can read that from gcc-4.2.0 on, 6.0.9 is needed, so you need a gcc-4.1.x.
In short, that’s why there’s only one libstdc++.so.6.0.x on your system, you only need the latest.
As for setting up your build system to use only a specific version of the compiler: make sure the standard g++ can’t be used (rename the link, remove the package providing it, take it out of PATH), and start digging. Worked for me.