For your watch/today-widget extension target (so not your app or libray target), go into the project settings and change the build setting APPLICATION_EXTENSION_API_ONLY / Require Only App-Extension-Safe API to NO.
For your watch/today-widget extension target (so not your app or libray target), go into the project settings and change the build setting APPLICATION_EXTENSION_API_ONLY / Require Only App-Extension-Safe API to NO.