As we all known, hibernate tries to be as non-invasive and as transparent as possible
I would say the initial assumption is wrong. Transaparent persistence is a myth, since application always should take care of entity lifecycle and of size of object graph being loaded.
Note that Hibernate can’t read thoughts, therefore if you know that you need a particular set of dependencies for a particular operation, you need to express your intentions to Hibernate somehow.
From this point of view, solutions that express these intentions explicitly (namely, 2, 4 and 7) look reasonable and don’t suffer from the lack of transparency.