find sql table name with a particular column

In SQL Server, you can query sys.columns.

Something like:

 SELECT
     t.name
 FROM
     sys.columns c
        inner join
     sys.tables t
        on
           c.object_id = t.object_id
 WHERE
     c.name="NameID"

You might want an additional lookup to resolve the schema name, if you have tables in multiple schemas.