Ember: Get route instance from the controller

From within a controller, you can access the router via this.get('target'). So this.get('target').send('goToNextStep') should work.

Like so:

App.Flow = Em.ObjectController.extend({
  submit: function(){
    // ...
    this.get('target').send('gotoNextStep');
  }
}

App.FlowRoute = Ember.Route.extend({
  events: {
    gotoNextStep: function(){
      // ...
      this.transitionTo(routeName);
    }
  }
}