Excel Date column returning INT using EPPlus

…when I need to read that excel file, the only dates that are
incorrect are the ones the user has changed

So when you read the modified excel-sheet, the modified dates are numbers whereas the unchanged values are strings in your date-format?

You could get the DateTime via DateTime.FromOADate:

long dateNum = long.Parse(worksheet.Cells[row, column].Value.ToString());
DateTime result = DateTime.FromOADate(dateNum);

With your sample-number:

Console.Write(DateTime.FromOADate(41640)); // ->  01/01/2014