In C:\Program Files (x86)\JetBrains\${Intellij Idea version}\bin, there is an executable called idea64.exe. This is for 64-bit systems. You can simply change your IntelliJ shortcut path to it.
You also need to add a new environment variable IDEA_JDK_64 pointing to your 64-bit JDK so IntelliJ can use a 64-bit JDK.
idea64.exe uses this JDK search sequence:
IDEA_JDK_64environment variable..\jre64directory- system Registry
JDK_HOMEenvironment variableJAVA_HOMEenvironment variable
More can be found in a related IntelliJ support article.