You can use this method to get the control that caused the postback:
/// <summary>
/// Retrieves the control that caused the postback.
/// </summary>
/// <param name="page"></param>
/// <returns></returns>
private Control GetControlThatCausedPostBack(Page page)
{
//initialize a control and set it to null
Control ctrl = null;
//get the event target name and find the control
string ctrlName = page.Request.Params.Get("__EVENTTARGET");
if (!String.IsNullOrEmpty(ctrlName))
ctrl = page.FindControl(ctrlName);
//return the control to the calling method
return ctrl;
}