didSet for a @Binding var in Swift

Instead of didSet you can always use onReceive (iOS 13+) or onChange (iOS 14+):

import Combine
import SwiftUI

struct ContentView: View {
    @State private var counter = 1
    
    var body: some View {
        ChildView(counter: $counter)
        Button("Increment") {
            counter += 1
        }
    }
}

struct ChildView: View {
    @Binding var counter: Int
    
    var body: some View {
        Text(String(counter))
            .onReceive(Just(counter)) { value in
                print("onReceive: \(value)")
            }
            .onChange(of: counter) { value in
                print("onChange: \(value)")
            }
    }
}