When integrating BCs, you have a few options. The reason that calling out to an external BC is discouraged is because it requires for both BCs to be operational at the same time. However, this is often quite acceptable and is simpler than the alternative. An alternative is to have the Game BC subscribe to events from the User BC and keep local copies of the data it needs, which in this case is information about whether a user is a group leader. In this way, when the Game BC needs to determine whether a user is a group leader, it doesn’t need to call out to the User BC, it just reads locally stored data. The challenge of this event-driven alternative is synchronizing the events. You have the make sure the Game BC receives all appropriate events from the User BC. Another challenge is dealing with eventual consistency, since the BCs may be slightly out of sync at any given point in time.
CQRS is somewhat orthogonal to this problem.