What is the equivalent of the has_many ‘conditions’ option in Rails 4?

Needs to be the second arg:

class Customer < ActiveRecord::Base
  has_many :orders, -> { where processed: true }
end

http://edgeguides.rubyonrails.org/association_basics.html#scopes-for-has-many

RESPONSE TO UPDATE:

Put the order inside the block:

has_many :friends, -> { where(friendship: {status: 'accepted'}).order('first_name DESC') }, :through => :friendships