to send a message to a specific client save every one that connects to the server in an Object.
var socketio = require('socket.io');
var clients = {};
var io = socketio.listen(app);
io.sockets.on('connection', function (socket) {
clients[socket.id] = socket;
});
then you can later do something like this:
var socket = clients[sId];
socket.emit('show', {});