I was trying the same as you, and I got answer in stackoverflow only, It is possible to create ENUM with default value. Here is what I got for you.
CREATE TYPE status AS ENUM ('Notconfirmed','Coming', 'Notcoming', 'Maycome');
CREATE TABLE t (
id serial,
s status default 'Notconfirmed' -- <==== default value
);
INSERT INTO t(id) VALUES (default) RETURNING *;
This worked for me like a charm.